Why do I feel this?

conivalcheese

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Hi,

Apology to go off topic for a bit. I just wanted to release how I feel...

Last 2 weeks ago, I deactivated my social media account. I couldn't help but compare myself with all the achievements of people in my feed. You know the feeling that you don't really wanted to compare yourself but it is leading you to feel it. Seeing all these posts is not good for me for it will trigger my anxiety.

Others may tell that I feel this because I envy those people. I don't know if you would classify that as being envious... All I feel is fear that I may not be able to achieve something for myself.

Your thoughts?
 

hipcat

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It's never a good idea to compare yourself with others because we are all different, with different skill levels & abilities. I wish I was better at a lot of things...marketing, creativity, playing guitar....but I am me, and you are you.

So, the existential goal in life is to strive to be the best "YOU" that you can be. Don't try to compare, or be like others....just be you.

The "pursuit" of happiness is all about the journey. Relax and enjoy the ride :)
 

Bitclu

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Don't worry we all are humans. Anxiety and envy are human emotions, it's not bad to experiences such emotions.

Everyone sometimes or the other feels these emotions.

However, you need to accept these emotions and work to get rid of them.

Take a deep breath and focus on yourself, instead of others.

I hope this will help you!
 
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