innersky23
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In creating a business; offline or online you're going to face obstacles!
So, when we discover there's something wrong in life we have two choices. Either:
1.) Complain & Blame
2.) Change
Ultimately beating yourself up about a situation will create more of the same in the future, therefore attracting the very same situations that you beat yourself up over...continuing the vicious cycle of frustration and anger.
Instead, why not ask, "How can this situation serve me?" In other words, if things don't go right, you can pull one good thing out of that experience.
Instead of focusing on the wrong, focus on what you can take away from that experience that will help you next time.
In the larger scheme of things, if you think your problems are "out there" you'll keep looking "out there"for the solutions. Blaming someone else for your problems means that THEY will have to change in order for you to be happy & have what you want. That never works!!
Unfortunately, many people take this victim road; especially in business, and end up in a big ditch. Instead of being a victim be accountable. Put accountability on steroids, & realize that success and happiness will come when you take accountability for your actions and life. The greatest results come when you're accountable for everything in your life.
So, when we discover there's something wrong in life we have two choices. Either:
1.) Complain & Blame
2.) Change
Ultimately beating yourself up about a situation will create more of the same in the future, therefore attracting the very same situations that you beat yourself up over...continuing the vicious cycle of frustration and anger.
Instead, why not ask, "How can this situation serve me?" In other words, if things don't go right, you can pull one good thing out of that experience.
Instead of focusing on the wrong, focus on what you can take away from that experience that will help you next time.
In the larger scheme of things, if you think your problems are "out there" you'll keep looking "out there"for the solutions. Blaming someone else for your problems means that THEY will have to change in order for you to be happy & have what you want. That never works!!
Unfortunately, many people take this victim road; especially in business, and end up in a big ditch. Instead of being a victim be accountable. Put accountability on steroids, & realize that success and happiness will come when you take accountability for your actions and life. The greatest results come when you're accountable for everything in your life.
